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Immature Defenses                            despite his personal favors, the boss       Acting Out
                                             promotes someone else, Mohit is
Immature defenses are one of the most        convinced that the other person got the     Suresh is the elder of two brothers. He
common set of defense mechanisms.            promotion because that other person did     helps his father in his business. But then
These are called immature defenses           more personal favors for their boss than    one day his father announces that in his
because these occur the most in              what Mohit did. So, when he meets with      will he has decided to keep a bigger share
adolescents. As adolescents mature to be     this person after that person has just      for Suresh's younger brother. Suresh's
adults, such defense mechanisms tend to      emerged from the boss's office, Mohit       father thinks that his younger son should
be replaced, first by neurotic defenses,     says, "What were you doing inside:          get more share because he is young and
and later, if the individual has truly       buttering the boss?“                        helpless, while Suresh is quite capable of
developed, into Mature defenses.                                                         creating his own life.
                                             Passive Aggression
One other reason why these defenses are                                                  Suresh is very angry about this but he
called immature defenses is because the      When the boss calls out to Mohit, Mohit     does not say anything outwardly. That
use of these defenses annoys and irritates   makes it appear that he has not heard the   evening, when he takes his car out, he,
others. This is one reason why               boss calling him. And when he does meet     without any reason, bangs his car against
adolescents are found to be irritating both  the boss, and the boss scolds him for his   a cycle parked on the side of the road,
by parents and teachers.                     poor quality work saying, "You are an       mangling it in the process.
                                             idiot, Mohit", Mohit makes a stupid
Examples of immature defenses include        expression implying, what can he do, he
the following:                               was born like that.

Projection                                   Mohit is angry with his boss, but he does
                                             not express his anger in any way, except
Let's take a hypothetical example. Mohit     by passively working against the wishes of
has just started working, and he wants to    his boss.
get promoted quickly. He thinks if he does
some personal favors for his boss, his boss
will promote him. But when he sees that

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