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Hypochondriasis                               Displacement                                 Reaction Formation

Bharat is a great fellow. But whenever I      Suresh is angry with his father, but as he   When I meet Suresh, he sounds very
meet him he complains that his stomach        cannot take out his anger with his father,   happy the way his father has gone about
is aching, or he has this headache that       he takes out his anger on his servant. The   deciding about his property. He praises his
never gets cured. Whenever I suggest an       moment he sees that his servant has          father for his foresight and sensitivity, and
option, or talk about a doctor, he says that  made some small mistake, he shouts at        his ability to balance the needs of the two
he has tried all remedies, and met all        his servant and insults him, calling him an  children.
doctors. It seems that he is not interested   idiot.
in knowing about cures; his interest is just                                               In this case, even though Suresh is angry
getting me to listen to his endless           Intellectualization                          with his father, he has turned his anger to
complaints!                                                                                its opposite - admiration and liking.
                                              Suresh is very angry with his father but
Neurotic Defenses                             instead of expressing his anger, he makes    Reaction formation is very moralistic in
                                              a cool, emotion less presentation on how     nature: after all, it is morals that are used
Immature defenses, when employed by           his father's decision about the division of  to justify the opposite reaction. (it is
an individual, trouble and irritate the       property is not appropriate in law. The      moral to appreciate one's father!)
people around them. Neurotic defenses,        way Suresh talks about the problem, it       Unfortunately, while Reaction Formation
in contrast, trouble the individuals who      seems that he is talking about someone       may seem admirable to others, it gives
employ them. People around them may           else's problem.                              little pleasure to the one adopting this.
not even know that the individual is                                                       This is because, even though Suresh may
adopting a particular defense mechanism.      Repression                                   sound positive about his father, he will
Some of the well know neurotic defenses                                                    actually not be able to get close to his
include the following:                        Whenever I meet Suresh on the way, he        father. The anger within is still there and
                                              seems totally out of sorts. When I ask him   even as he expresses admiration, he will
                                              what is the matter, he says actually         experience abrasiveness (towards his
                                              nothing is the matter: for some              father) internally. And this abrasiveness
                                              inexplicable reason his mood has been off    would be picked up by the other party
                                              for many days.                               too.

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